Paul tells Titus “to obey magistrates” and to “be ready to every good work.” (Titus 3:1) He also tells him “to speak evil of no man.” Instead Paul calls Titus to “show all meekness unto all men.”
Therefore, authority must be respected. Work must be completed with excellence. Gentleness and humility must be the standard of each day, and we must not speak evil of anyone. Paul encourages these behaviors by reminding Titus and us that “we ourselves also were once foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving various lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful, and hating one another.” (Titus 3:3) But — and this is a huge ‘however’ — due to “the kindness and love of God” we are washed by “regeneration” and renewed “of the Holy Spirit.” (Titus 3:5) We are “justified by His grace,” and “made heirs according to the hope of eternal life.” (Titus 3:7)
Because we are regenerated, justified, renewed and heirs of eternal life — we are called to be merciful and gentle. How can we be anything but kind to others? We ourselves are the recipients of the undeserved and incredible kindness of God Himself. How can we behave in any other manner than the one Paul commends to us?