In the garden of Gethsemane, while sweating blood, Jesus likely recalls these words:
“I call upon the LORD in distress: the LORD answers me, and sets me in a large place. The LORD is on my side; I will not fear: what can man do unto me?”
These words He likely remembers as He faces the cross, and the emptiness of the universe when God the Father turns from the Son. What man is to do to Jesus causes the Son of Man to pray for this cup of intense suffering to bypass Him if possible. Yet, says Jesus, not as I want but as You will, Father. Jesus experiences simultaneously an excruciating dread of what His obedience to the Father costs, and an open willingness to obey the Father despite that cost.
Jesus is in a large place. He pivots in time with all results dependent upon His response to the betraying kiss of Judas. In this moment of great temptation, Jesus quietly asks: Must you betray Me with a kiss? then submits Himself to the will of mankind. Jesus knows the Lord is on His side.
Jesus’ disciples feign wanting to know “who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:1) Imagine them looking at one another, thinking – for example – “Surely I’m better than Matthew; after all, he’s a tax collector!” – or – “I’ve got to be greater than Judas; after all, he complains about wasting an expensive ointment, pretending he cares for the poor.” Martha must think, “I’m better than Mary.” After all, Martha complains about her sister, Mary – implying that she is lazy. Martha wants Jesus to rebuke her for sitting at His feet while she prepares the meal. Peter even briefly appears to think he’s better than Jesus, rebuking Jesus for saying that He will be killed and rise from the dead. “Far be it from You, Lord! This will never happen to You.” (Matthew 16:22)
When they ask Him about being the greatest in the kingdom of God, Jesus shows His disciples a child. He tells them that “unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.”
Jesus calls us to turn and become like children. Sounds similar to turning back the clock, perhaps wiping the slate clean and starting over from a place of innocence and great humility. We are to think better of others than we do of ourselves; treat others as we would wish to be treated. We are not to put stumbling blocks in the way of others; or lead others into temptation. Jesus warns, “Whoever causes one of these little ones who believes in Me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened about his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.” (Matthew 18:6)
“See that you do not despise one of these little ones,” says Jesus. “For I tell you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 18:10)